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Chris's avatar

Thanks Terry - once again your values-based content gives me a sobering smile and a warm feeling in this confusing world that seems to be more ego led than values led.

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Lois W. Halbert's avatar

So agree

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7dEdited

Beautiful story, perfect poem. Thank you, Terry. I have enjoyed reading and watching you since you have joined Substack. I hope you stick around and keep telling stories. But I think story telling is in your blood.

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poonam pari's avatar

Terry, this was a wonderful poem. thanks for sharing this. Happy Sunday!

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7dEdited

What a beautiful tribute to your father! Commitment and persistency will also get us through these terrible times. We will not cave in, we will not give up.

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Joyce McKenney's avatar

Beautiful. Your family experience is to be envied. I’m sorry you lost your Dad too young. May his memory be a blessing.

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Susan Miville's avatar

This is a beautiful poem. The images are powerful and evocative. It makes think that what is past is always present, a herald of what’s to come. History is collective memory. Thank you for sharing. The passion resonates.

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Patricia Pomerleau's avatar

Terry, what a great Sunday morning post. My family was also a total of 12, including my parents(not including the animals). Yes, we are Catholic. My father made a similar comment to your dad when a man asked “Catholic, eh?” with a smirk. (NB: My mom was a stunner; she looked like Audrey Hepburn even after ten kids). Dad turned, look him up and down and said "I bet your wife doesn't have those legs” And then he chuckled, gave his famous “look”, and walk off.

Big families the greatest fun. People really don't realize the community and intersections of having ten brothers and sisters figuring out how to live together. Learning how to fight and protect and negotiate. Great tools for life.

Just subscribed. Good luck on your new journey. We need you!

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Bonnie b's avatar

A beautiful post! Thank you so much for telling about your dad.

“He was quietly devout. You would not know how deep his faith went, he didn’t wear it on his sleeve. But I have never seen anyone pray more intensely than Daddy did after he received Holy Communion.

And he loved our mom, of course.”

- of course!

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Kathy Joyce Glascott's avatar

This piece resonated with me. I too grew up in a big Irish family. My Dad still is my hero— a true gentleman and deep thinker and scholar. He’s been gone for 30+ years,but he’s alive in my memories. The poem is beautiful. We must all answer the call to resist the tyranny we witness every day.

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Helene Stuckey's avatar

Thank you for sharing❣️ Your dad was a noble man. I too, marched in Washington against the Vietnam War. Keep up the good work & just an fyi…I love reading & listening to you on Substack.

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Wendy Shelley's avatar

Terry, what a difference your voice has made in our Country since your permitting us to hear it in this Substack. When one door closes another opens. We are SO lucky! And the poem is a delightful break in days of bleak times. Thank you!

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Maria Kwiatkowski's avatar

A Memorial Day Wish

There once was a time before you were born

We lived with a thing and we called it “war”

A thing of lives lost - bodies mangled and torn

And often we wondered, “God, what is it for?”

“For God and Country,”

Someone would shout

To preserve our bounty

And to keep others out!

“To preserve our freedoms,”

Then yelled some others

Meant children torn from their bosoms

Tears shed by fathers and mothers

Within the prolonged sadness

Came new thoughts and whispers

“Aren’t we sick of this madness?”

Thus, began the resistors

Not with bloodshed and guns

But with inclusion and love

The future of daughters and sons

Begins with peace, its symbol a dove

It took a long time,

this festering doubt

That hearts and minds

Believed none could be left out

From a world void of darkness

A world without war

No more sadness and madness

We could take it no more

We found a new way

One of love and wisdom

That Memorial Day

Included not one of our children

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Wendy Shelley's avatar

Magnificent!

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Yermom6's avatar

Your writing is amazing. Your passion for what is moral and right shines through. And your love for your father… well said. Thank you for leaving mainstream media. I left them long ago.

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Rona's avatar

What a wonderful tribute and remembrance of your father. My father, even though he grew up differently in the small towns of Louisiana, sounds very similar to yours. A Korean War veteran, he also was vehemently opposed to the Vietnam War. He was a quiet man with a mighty fine sense of humor and every year on their anniversary, he wrote his wife, my mother, a love poem. Many thanks for sharing this lovely reminder of all the goodness there is still yet in this world.

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Laura Cheek's avatar

I’m so glad I read this today. It gives me some hope that someday we will come out of this Black Cloud which overshadows our country right now. There are good people and you are surely one of them.

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Pamela Beckford's avatar

What a wonderful tribute to your father. And what a wonderful legacy he left. Thank you for sharing.

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